Why I'm Done Writing About Dad Habits

For the last year and change I ran a newsletter called Time Well Spent, on a site called Dad Habits. 17 issues. About 100 subscribers. Maybe a dozen of them got real value out of it.

It didn't work.

Not because the writing was bad. Not because the audience didn't exist. It didn't work because "dad habits" is a frame that only reaches people during a specific life stage, only converts on a narrow band of topics, and competes with Huberman, Attia, Clear, and a thousand louder voices. A year of writing into that niche taught me something useful. The niche was wrong.

But the method I kept reaching for inside it was right.

(For the record: I have nothing against the dad-habits niche. Several writers I respect do excellent work there. It's just not my seat. My seat is something else, and it took 17 issues to figure that out.)

Issue 010 of Time Well Spent introduced what I called "1,000 seconds of intentional movement a day." Not a workout plan. A unit. Sixteen minutes and forty seconds. Small enough that a time-starved person will actually do it. Long enough that it counts as evidence to themselves that they did. I came back to it across issues. It kept working when other framings didn't.

I've spent the last few months figuring out why.

The short version: 1,000 seconds sits in a useful gap that the behavioral science literature predicts. It's small enough to satisfy the intention-action research (Gollwitzer's implementation-intentions work shows a d=0.65 effect on goal attainment when commitments are specified at a scale this concrete). It's a sub-goal in the way Huang's chunking research demands. It's a unit you can publicly commit to without triggering the suppression effects Munson found when people are asked to broadcast bigger commitments. It's a "commitment device" in the Ariely and Karlan sense. Small, repeatable, verifiable.

The 1000 Second Method isn't a hack. It's the smallest meaningful chunk that simultaneously satisfies four conditions the research says are necessary for follow-through. The duration falls out of the constraints, not the other way around.

That's what I'm going to write about now, here, under my own name.

What this site is, what it isn't

The new thing is broader than fatherhood. It's about operating systems for high-agency people in a world where AI just moved the floor of what's possible. Three pillars:

1. Behavior change. Personal protocols that survive a Tuesday at 2pm when you're tired. The 1000 Second Method is the core artifact here.
2. AI-augmented workflows. Claude Code as a senior IC, agent briefs, PRDs in the agent era, the Mac Mini in my basement that runs my personal agent (Totty), and the protocols around all of it.
3. Product craft. Operator tools for directors and VPs. The Leverage Matrix, decision logs, derisking, the senior-IC-to-VP demo in the AI era.

The audience isn't "dads in tech." It's anyone trying to compound across work, training, and family without burning out. Mid-career P/E/O leaders. AI-fluent operators. People who already have great tools and shit protocols.

If you were a Time Well Spent subscriber: thanks for sticking around. You'll notice the topics widen and the voice tightens. The fitness and fatherhood stuff doesn't disappear. It just stops being the frame. If that's a deal-breaker, the unsubscribe link is at the bottom and I won't take it personally.

If you're new: welcome.

What I'm building in public

I'm shipping this build live. Not because performance, because the proof loop is the point. Three things going at once:

1. The 1000 Second Audit. Free, 15 minutes, one PDF + one Google Sheet. It tells you where your last 1000 seconds of focused work actually went.
2. The 1000 Second Method. Paid protocol install. Five protocols, templates, prompt pack. Founding price $27 for 30 days, then $47.
3. Grit Collective: Operator Cohort. The small-group container where the Method becomes infrastructure. 8 seats, 6 weeks, $800 founding. Verified through Telegram and Strava. Cohort 1 ran already. Cohort 2 applications open after the Method launches.

Grit Collective is the prototype where the 1000 Second Method becomes infrastructure. Small cohorts committing to pursuits over weeks, Telegram for accountability, Strava for verification, no app to download. It's an experiment, not a venture. The point is to demonstrate that the mechanism works at the level of a real container, not just a personal practice.

Each tier is going to give me something to write about. Each essay is going to make the next tier obvious. The funnel is the content; the content is the funnel.

What you can expect from me here

• 1 deep tactical essay per week, Mondays. 1200-2000 words. Always with a number in the opener. Always with at least one numbered list. Sometimes with profanity. Self-graded. Bracketed asides.
• 1 Sunday Stack, Sundays. 5 things from the week: 1 prompt, 1 tool, 1 framework, 1 essay (someone else's), 1 observation.
• Build-in-public updates when there's actually something to update.
• No "5 tools every PM needs." No carousels of aphorisms. No "let's delve into." No engagement bait.

The first essay on the new positioning is "The 1000 Second Method," coming next week.

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