Product Leader · FATHER · Builder

Hi, I'm Totty.

AI was supposed to give us back our time. So I'm building the operating system that does. In public.

Director of Product at Kajabi. I prototype commitment infrastructure for high-agency people. Grit Collective is the working prototype of the thesis. Time Well Spent is the weekly essay on behavior change, AI-augmented work, and what I'm learning building the system. Tuesdays.

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Brent recording a podcast, at the beach with his son, and with friends outdoors

Building at Kajabi · Cofounder · Amplify · Backstage · Expert Agents

[ How I help ]

Three ways I can help.

Free, paid 1:1, group. Pick the one that fits where you are.

01

Start here · Free

The 1000 Second Method

A free installer that runs inside Claude Code. Five protocols. One install. Thirty days to grade yourself.

Free · 30 days · self-serve

02

1:1 Session

Book a session via Every Expert

The soft on-ramp to me. One session, a real decision, a real plan. Validate fit before going deeper.

Paid · 1 session

03

Group Pursuit

Grit Collective

8 to 12 people. 10 to 22 weeks. One hard pursuit. I'm in the Telegram. The bot records and reflects.

Apply · 8–12 people · 10–22 weeks

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[ Writing ]

Latest Posts

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Why I’m Done Writing About Dad Habits

A year of writing into a niche taught me the niche was wrong. The method survived.

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The 1000 Second Method

Sixteen minutes and forty seconds is the smallest meaningful chunk that satisfies four behavioral-science conditions at once.

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I Built an AI Agent for My Family

Built a household AI agent in 6 months on a $500 Mac Mini. The full stack, the protocols around it, what it actually does on a Tuesday at 2pm.

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[ Manifesto ]

Learn to use AI like an operator so you have time for the things that matter.

Time to

write the essay you’ve been putting off.ship the side project.be present at dinner.finish the book on your nightstand.

Time Well Spent · Tuesdays

Time Well Spent.

A weekly essay. Tuesdays. Behavior change, AI-augmented work, and the mechanisms behind what I build.

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